We are not bound to repeat the cycles that we’ve inherited from our families, peers, and culture; we can begin again…
My name is Hsiao-Yen and I’m here to walk beside you as we both break free from the ideologies, cultures, and institutions, that we both, for too long, contorted lives and beings around pleasing. Coming from a painful past of enmeshment and parentification in childhood, over-achieving perfectionism in adolescence, “pick me” chameleoning turned “good girl” purity-striving in my teens, and codependence and narcissistic abuse in young adulthood, I’ve made it my mission to share the internal maps of my own root-cause healing with all my fellow recovering pleasers. Sharing my death-rebirth journey online with my community of 40k since 2015, it’s been my greatest fulfillment in this life to reclaim the real self beneath my own masks, so that others can feel permission to do the same.
TESTIMONIALS and PRAISE from FORMER CLIENTS:
“With my whole heart, I can sincerely say that Hsiao is one of the kindest and wisest souls I have ever had the good fortune of encountering. Her humble teachings and loving guidance over the last four years have provided the most astonishing illumination to help light my way. Never have I felt so seen and held by another sister as I did with Hsiao while I traversed my shadow during my dark night of the soul. This beautiful soul has ultimately reflected back to me my own light and led me deep into the heart of self-love. Hsiao is an empath of the highest order, and through her, I finally understand that to be truly empathic is to extend all of that love to oneself. I count her amongst my greatest teachers of all time.”
― Laura Pung, Integrative Psychotherapist | Melbourne, Australia
“Hsiao-Yen is blessed with the gifts of intuitive leadership. As the recipient of her genuine, intentional desire to share her gifts, I have benefitted greatly from our relationship. As a mentor and guide, she immediately led me toward confidently believing in my own sources of inner wisdom. With grace and genuine purity of intention, Hsiao-Yen channeled from her own sources of energy and wisdom to guide me. This has helped me to begin uncovering my own hidden maps. Discovering Hsiao-Yen and The Eternal Beginner has been an incredible blessing and an experience I highly recommend. Any one of her offerings would be a wise investment for a person seeking to manifest and explore their highest self.”
― Elizabeth Spring, Trauma Survivor & Advocate | Seattle, Washington
“In a myriad of what felt like a heavy darkness surrounding myself, it was so refreshing and reassuring to work with Hsiao-Yen and the beautiful mentorship she offers. What an HONOR to be able to share space with Hsiao-Yen. She mirrored back to me exactly what I needed in order to grow and expand into my own divine and sacred consciousness of all that is, as it is. I now remember to embrace my intuitive gifts and talents to serve the greater good. Honestly, words cannot even begin to express the amount of love I hold for Hsiao-Yen and the divine work and healing she is doing for people like myself. If you truly resonate with The Eternal Beginner, I encourage you to take the leap of faith and invest in yourself.”
― Koko Owusu, Healing Practitioner | London, United Kingdom
explore MY CURRENT PROJECTS and OFFERINGS:
Instagram Blog | The Eternal Beginner
sharing my journey of perennial rebirth
What began as an experiment in micro-blogging in 2015 under the handle @theintentionalife, sharing my trauma-healing and spiritual awakening journey, has become an online community of over 40,000+ coming together to explore how we can begin again to unlearn the culture’s the no longer serve us, heal from the generational cycle’s we’ve inherited, and rebirth our inner lives to ultimately impact not only our outer lives, but our interpersonal relationships, cultures, systems, and world.
Podcast | The Nondual View
questioning our collective false polarities
In our world hellbent on labeling each and every group, ideology, or structure as wholly right or wrong, good or evil, The Nondual View is a safe container to explore the nuanced gray in every seeming black and white duality. Seeing my own internalized biases as microcosmic expression of our collective programming, my aim is to destigmitize - in real time - the process of being as critical of our own worldviews as we are of others, by starting with myself.
Eco-Ethical Adornments | Eclectica
embracing our fragmentation into wholeness
Eclectica was born out of the desire to meld three of my most heartfelt values into the most eclectic earrings I could design: 1) for them to be made with sustainable and nontoxic materials, 2) for them to be handmade with ethical labor, and 3) for them to not only look beautiful, but hold such a potent symbolism that wearing them would feel like putting on a new energy. Finally… we can express our wild souls with adornments that honor us all.
Online Course | The Freed Fawn ™
rebirthing our people pleasing into purpose
Amidst all the cycles of harm perpetuated in our world, we ARE the one’s we’ve been waiting for… but what if we ourselves are stuck in cycles of people pleasing and self-suppression that have kept us small and silent? It’s up to us to take radically loving responsibility over our lives so that we can rise into our fullest authenticity and divine purpose in service to all. NOW is our time to rise.